Asking for Sex Toys for The Holidays

Posted by Jenn P. on

Perhaps instead of being nice this year, you want to be naughty?  That is why it is totally okay to ask your partner for a sex toy for the holidays.  You certainly don't have to make this an awkward conversation at all. And it doesn’t matter if it’s your boyfriend, husband, lover, girlfriend, or whoever it happens to be that you are in a sexual relationship with.  They will ask, what do you want for the holidays? Be blunt, talk about how a new sex toy can make everything in the bedroom much more fun for you both. 

It's okay to be kinky and sexual with your lover.  We are in a world that is more discovering of our sexuality, that has been proven to lead to living a much healthier lifestyle.  At some point, we are all are curious about a particular sex toy.  This is not the 1980's anymore, where using sex toys have to be "hush hush".  We also have a marketplace besides the "old school sex toy, the vibrator".  Not only do we live a much more diverse society, we have medical studies that have been taking place on the advantages of using sex toys.  So this holiday season, I say spice it up and make it a holiday you surely won't forget. 

Another good way of asking for a sex toy for the holiday season, without coming outright and saying it, you can add it to a wishlist.  Using a our wishlist feature, you can pick items that you would like to receive as a gift and share it with your lover.  That could be a great option if you’re totally uncomfortable asking for it outright. 

However, if you are in a healthy relationship, asking your lover for a sex toy, may feel exciting.  Explain to your partner the kind of toy you would like and how it could really make things in the bedroom a little more exciting.  If you are interested in a particular toy, you could tell your lover how you would like to masturbate in front of him using your new sex toy.  Most men will find that very sexy and erotic.  Keep your lover or partner involved in the sex toy play.  If not, it may make your partner feel like they are not doing the job you’re really looking for when you are at your most intimate together.  So tell him or her, why you think it would be fun for both of you.  He or she could also participate and use the toy on you, while you are together.  This type of fun can definitely lead to much more sexual exploring together as a couple. 

So this holiday season, don't be afraid to let your partner or lover know that you want to be on his or her naughty list!


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