Fin Finger Vibe Review with Bonus Erotic Fantasy Fiction by Anne Stagg

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Fin by Dame is part of the Curated Collection Inspired by Anne Stagg

Your body is yours. It sounds simple. Something that’s a given, right? But when was the last time you pampered your body like you would that of a lover? It’s a daunting question, I know, and probably not one you were expecting in a sex toy review. Hear me out, I promise I have a point.

Self-love, masturbation, flicking the bean…Whatever you want to call it, is good for you. It’s something you can do for yourself that helps you relax, sleep, reduce stress, relieve the pain of period cramps (if you menstruate), and feel better about the skin you live in.

Exploring what makes you feel good is an important part of loving yourself. The Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame can be an excellent companion on that journey.

First, I want to give a shout out to Dame. The company focuses on all folks with vulvas and vaginas instead of just cis-women, and they have trans and cis models on their site.

Love. Them. And good-on-you Desireforpassion.com for working with a company that’s genuinely invested in the health and sexual wellness of all folks with vulvas and vaginas.

Now, on to the Fin Vibrator for Fingers. Below is the unboxing video, where I take my first peek at the Fin.

This small, but mighty vibe is a simple, out of the box, delight. It’s two side grooves let you hold it between your fingers for self-pleasuring or your toes if you’re playing with friends. There are three speeds available at the press of a button, and its splash proof for easy cleaning.

Don’t forget those tootsies. Your feet are incredibly sensitive and can be a fun place to tease and play.

Not only is there direct vibration from the toy, but your whole hand (or foot) is also transformed into a shivering vibe. Who wouldn’t want a little extra magic in their touch? The Fin’s three vibration settings create a directed and intense sensation where ever it’s applied. Do you like nipple play? The Fin provides a wonderful, focused tease.

It’s even got a removable tether for those of us prone to dropping things. Yup, that’s me all over.

I. Love. This. Toy. The only real limitation for what you can do with the Fin is your imagination. Need an example of the Fin’s possibilities? Ever heard of Edging?

Edging is bringing yourself (or a partner) to the brink of orgasm, backing off, cooling down, and starting again. Think of it like a sexy version Chutes and Ladders where you always win, because when you do finally orgasm, it’s a stronger, more intense experience.

I think the Fin is an ideal toy to use for edging (solo or partnered) because it’s easy to use. It turns off and on with the touch of a button. To stop the sensation immediately turn it off or pull your hand away (or your foot – seriously, don’t give up on the possibility of using your whole body to make love).

If your tastes tend toward the vanilla side of the street, bring edging into masturbation as a way to explore pleasure in your own skin. It’s a sumptuous gift for yourself. Imagine taking the time to make love to yourself. Allowing your pleasure to build, letting the finger vibe carrying you closer and closer to the summit with each caress, and tumbling over the precipice when you’re ready to fall. That’s empowering, master-level lovemaking, and it’s just for you.

Want to bring the Fin and edging into some partnered play? Stoke the flames by giving your partner the wheel. Your partner pleasures you until you’re about to come, then stops and lets you rest as many times as you like, or vice versa. Just make sure you have a safe word or stoplight system in place in case the intensity gets overwhelming.

Safe words aren’t just for us kinksters, learning your limits and communicating them to your partner(s) is for everyone.

Attention Older folks with Vulvas and Vaginas: As you age, sometimes getting wet and coming can be a little more challenging. Edging as foreplay can help if you want to reach your climax with your partner(s) but it takes you a little longer to get there.

I’m a bit of a kinkster, so I enjoy a little power in my play. Edging is a great way to dip your toe in the Domination/submission (D/s) pool. If you’re curious about being the big “D,” you can set a goal for your partner. For example, I want you to edge yourself five times in the next hour. Then give your partner the Fin and let them go to town.  If you want to try on being the little “s,” ask your partner to set the terms for you.

REMEMBER: If you’re going to venture into the land of kink, TALK ABOUT IT FIRST, make sure everyone’s on board with the plan, and have safe words and stoplights (Red – all stop, Yellow – stop & talk, and Green – all’s good). Practicing safe, sane, and consensual kink (SSC) or risk accepted consensual kink(RACK) is the key to an unforgettable, pleasurable experience.

Play safe, my Beauties, and don’t forget to bring the Fin Vibrator for Fingers by Dame along for the ride.

Be Well, Be Wonderful, and Above All Be You.

Bonus Erotic Fantasy Fiction by Anne Stagg 

Seduction

“I can’t believe I’m doing this,” you say to yourself, flicking the thermostat up a few degrees to curb the chill in the air. 

Self-seduction. It had seemed ridiculous when you’d read about it.

Your initial thought had been “Why put all that work in? I know I’m a sure thing.” The idea had stuck with you, though. It grew every day, twining around your mundane thoughts like ivy climbing up the column of a Greek temple.

Candles. Silk. Pleasure. All for you and no one else. Then you saw the finger vibe online and it was all over. You’d gone on a self-care spree.

The new robe you bought for yourself is silk. It falls against your curves like a whisper. Skin still warm from the bath, you pull the tie, letting your hands trail over your chest, plucking at the buds of your nipples. A trill of pleasure shoots down your spine.

When you had been lighting the candles and turning down the crisp cotton sheets you’d splurged on, you’d felt like character in a play, a temptress planning a grand seduction. Now that you’re in the moment with scent of sandalwood and cinnamon wrapping around you and flickers of light painting your skin, you feel like a goddess.

A flare of want deep in the cradle of your hips draws you to your bed. You stretch, enjoying the pull of your muscles and the sensation of the air on your bare skin. Your fingers begin a gentle exploration, following your neck downward, until you’re spreading your legs wide to tease the tender skin of your inner thighs.

You’re wet when you reach your center and you indulge in brief touches that leave your fingers dewy with slick. The small vibe is on your night stand. You pick that up and turn it on. It shivers to life and the gentle quiver in your hand makes you chuckle.

Pressing the vibe against your mouth, you let it tickle your lips. The vibe follows the same path you’d forged earlier, and you relish the shift in sensation.

Every tingle stokes your passion.

Circling your hips when the toy reaches your center, you spread yourself open, the vibration pulsing against you. There’s no rush. The only thirst that you need to quench is your own. You vary grazing caresses around the well of your sex, with firm pressure on your clit until you’re panting with excitement.

That is when you pull your hand away and turn off the toy. The need for imminent release recedes, leaving you shuddering with want. You wonder how many times you can stare over the edge of the precipice before you fall?

You smile, happiness swelling within you, as you turn the vibe on and begin again. 

Read more of Anne Stagg's Erotic Fantasy Fiction at annestaggwrites.com


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